Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the
blind can see. ~ Mark Twain
I haven’t had much time for blog writing lately, and I’ve missed that. I’ve been doing a lot of writing, though. Last week was spent writing pages and pages of a grant narrative. I was often frustrated as I sat staring at the screen willing the words to flow. It was so very different from writing in the blog. When I write HERE, the words flow without much thought. Often, I don’t know where a blog post is even heading until I’m finished writing. Last week, though, I was a frustrated writer. At one point, when someone stepped into my office, they asked me if I was having trouble seeing. I didn’t understand what they were referring to until I realized that I had a pair of reading glasses on my head, one on my face, and yet another tucked into the front of my shirt.
Eventually, I did complete my writing assignment. The mass of papers was mailed out, and now I am keeping my fingers crossed that we will be blessed by the powers that be with a grant to fund the project. By the time my words made it to the Post Office, it felt very much like stuffing my child into a large envelope and hoping for the best.
The boys are doing well away from home. The girls are busy with their lives, school, and friends. T and I are finding our way around a much-too-large space that was once occupied by the bustle of four kids. All around me I feel change and transition. I’m waiting it out, yet feeling a sense of isolation, melancholy, and loneliness. Even so, I know that the dust will eventually settle, a new routine will become established, the voids I am experiencing now will be someday soon be filled with new activities and interests. Still…. I don’t like this in-between time of waiting for all of that to happen.
I have been making a point to acknowledge to myself all of the GOOD things in my life by taking a moment and a deep breath of appreciation when something good comes my way. Can I call that “cultivating” the good? I am trying to exorcise the bad experiences, bad memories, harmful thought processes, by redirecting myself toward the good as often as possible.
Today is a busy work day. I am speaking at a luncheon this afternoon, which means I have to ON. Bleh… Don’t feel like being ON. Tomorrow will be even busier with meetings and my obligation to take my mother to the doctor. On top of all that, I will be packing to leave for a conference on Friday. There will be no weekend for me. I’ll be sitting in conference sessions a thousand miles away from home. I already miss my daughters at the very thought of leaving them.
A ray of sunshine entered my grouchy morning, though. I received an email out of the blue, and it was full of kindness. God Bless this Good Person! It was a simple act of reaching out and spreading goodwill for NO OTHER REASON THAN TO BE KIND. How incredibly needed and refreshing that felt. Someone thought of me. They thought kindly of me. They reached out to me.
I know we haven’t seen each other in a while, but I wanted to let you know you are doing a great job. (Name of my employer) is lucky to have someone like you.
Thanks for everything you do!
My gosh! I had tears in my eyes. This person had no way of knowing what those simple words meant to me. I will remember that feeling, and I will pass it on. That’s one reason I’m sharing it here on my blog. Take a moment today, please, to make someone feel valued. Take a moment to be kind. Pass it on!