I question everything. I seek understanding. Until I have answers to my questions, my mind won’t shut up. If I don’t understand something, especially the behavior of others, I mull it over and over until I am satisfied with their motives, reasons, or what is causing their behavior. If someone snaps at me without cause, I try not to take it personally. Instead, I want to help. What has them upset? What’s wrong? What can I do to help? Most times in my life, this has served me well. My attempts to empathize and understand the behavior of those around me (and not take it personally) has given me a better understanding of myself and has kept conflict to a minimum. Continue Reading »